Ann Goldstein’s departure at the Stedelijk Museum in Amsterdam has been much discussed. She will leave her position as artistic director, as of the 1st of December 2013. The renovation of the building has been completed, but on the level of content, a lot still needs to be done. In this transitional period, the Stedelijk seems to have lost some of its international visibility and vision. Why then, is Goldstein leaving now? Gossip about the reasons for this premature departure filled many a (digital) pen. The newspaper De Volkskrant published a list of about 10 possible new candidates from the Dutch art field, immediately after its announcement of Goldstein’s departure, and it pumped Sjarel Ex, director of the Boijmans Museum, for information. Before she has even left, it seems everyone is already scrambling to find a new perpetrator to trump. Metropolis M published an apologetic piece; apparently it is all our own fault. On the blog, many responses listed all that had gone wrong. Clearly an unusual situation like this offers space for analysis of the exact motives. But what the discussion really reveals is our own expectations of both the museum and its director.